The Most Common Stumbling Blocks to Success
It's hard to find someone that doesn't want to succeed. Success can be elusive, because there are so many obstacles to success. These obstacles aren't fatal, but they greatly decrease progress. When these obstacles aren't avoided, the resulting frustration can make the average person consider quitting altogether.
Avoid these common stumbling blocks to success:
~1 Not doing enough. Highly successful people are notorious for outworking everyone else. Success can be simple, but it often requires long hours of hard work. If you're not known for your work ethic, the solution to your lack of success might simply be to do more. Be smart in your approach, but also be determined to outwork your competition.
~2 A lack of consistency. You can't follow a diet 50% of the time and expect to reach your weight-loss goal. Your efforts must be consistent if success is the objective. Create daily habits and stick with them.
- Measure your consistency as well as your progress. Notice how they correlate.
~3 Having too many goals. Serving too many masters can result in poor results. Decide which of your objectives is most important and concentrate your efforts accordingly.
- Avoid spreading yourself too thin. After you've accomplished your top 2 or 3 objectives, you can return to the others.
~4 Unclear objectives. If you're uncertain about what you want, your results will be limited. Be very clear about your goals. It's all in the details. Can you clearly define your goals without having to think about them? Could you just rattle your goals off to another person? Do you have them written down? Will it be clear when you've accomplished them?
~5 Limiting beliefs. Doubt and uncertainty are very limiting. Negative thoughts provide negative results. Keep your thoughts and expectations positive.
- When you think about achieving a big goal, what are the thoughts that run through your mind? Do you feel motivation or a sense of dread? Is your self-talk positive or negative?
- Do you believe you can be successful? Do you believe you can be highly successful? What's stopping you from being the most successful person you know?
~6 Failing to get expert advice. Whether you want to make $100 million, swim the English Channel, or learn how to waltz, there are people that have accomplished those very things. It only makes sense to get their assistance. Talk to a coach or mentor to get their assistance. If could fast-track you forward!
~7 Taking shortcuts. The key to reaching your goals faster is to work harder and smarter. However, trying to skip steps can lead to disaster. Success is accomplished one step at a time.
~8 Sticking to methods that aren't working. Be attached to your outcome, but avoid being attached to the process.
- Your first guess on how to achieve your goal probably won't be correct. Change your plan if you're not getting the results you want.
- Use what works and discard what doesn't.
~9 Fear. Fear can show itself in many ways. Fear of failure. Fear of success. Fear of how your friends and family will treat you if you're successful. Fear of approaching new customers. Fear of criticism.
- Determining the source of your fear will make it easier to overcome. What are you afraid of and why?
- Less obvious symptoms of fear include fatigue, procrastination, forgetfulness, and a lack of motivation.
Be clear on your objective and be willing to put in the necessary time and effort. Address any limiting beliefs and fears before they become an issue. The stumbling blocks to success can be overcome or avoided. Ensure your success by educating yourself about the potential barriers in your way.